Kinship with paranoia

I think nothing would hit me as hard as when my family is down with sicknesses. Or even worst, death.
It is really cruel to think (logically) that God would actually make us grow old, wither and eventually leave this place, probably without our parents around?
On the other hand, God is so good. He's already prepared the heavens for us.. right up there where we can live a perfect life with God. That's really comforting for us christians but what about our closest people who don't know Jesus?
oh well, I really hope that we would cherish the people around us especially our close ones. You'll never know if there's a tomorrow.

Had this thought since my friend and I were talking about parents passing away due to cancer. Sad thought... And it is really hard to comprehend that people (MG) would actually lie that they've a terminal disease? It's really sad and shocking seriously..... Healer is still a powerful song though. Forgive.

May God bless our close ones with good health.